Online Dating – Is it possible to fall in love in cyber world?
By: Abdul Waheed Noori~
Most of the people think that it is not possible to love someone with whom you met on internet. They give many arguments. In some ways they are right, but sometimes their arguments fail and yes some people find true love on internet. It may start from chatting someone, or someone who is in your social community list, etc.
There are many reasons why people are looking for love online. For a start, people hooking into the romantic cyber-world are generally open to a relationship, and not looking for some quick thrills. They’re usually serious about their quest for love.
Chatting on the web can fast-track a relationship. It can strip away the superficialities of appearance and reveal the real person.
I know that many people consider that online dating is a waste of time. But I personally know some couples that got acquainted on the Internet and nevertheless they are happy and they really love each other. That’s why I think that people shouldn’t be afraid of online dating.
I know a guy who fell in love with a girl just chatting with her for few days. His love start getting deeper and deeper. The girl also had feelings for him and they started relationship. Although it is hard for them as they are so far away and have some differences between ie, race, culture, but they have many common points about the life. They are caring, understanding and loving each other!
Every kind of way to find your partner have it’s advantages and disadvantages. Online dating is quick but it is also true that sometimes dangerous if you got the wrong person. But before the internet, there was phone pal or pen pal whom you really don’t know or see the person but many time it works. So yeah internet dating works.
The Sunday Times proved the point saying that “email relationships can be far more intimate than normal dating.”
Online dating has been one of the biggest success stories of the world wide web. And the reason why is pretty simple: it works. People do find love online – in ever increasing numbers.
If someday you find someone loves you and you also feels for them, I would like to say, it’s your feelings that really matter. So don’t be afraid and try it; Don’t miss the opportunity!
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Yes, i really agree with the article that we can b found by cyber or internet, with start to chatting… Even iat first. I am the one of most of people who dont believe tht WE CAN FIND TRUE LOVE BY CHATTING INTERNET OR CYBER. I am really dont believe it!!!! Because i thought before thats so fictive, fake n many things can be hidden if just meet on cyber/internet.. many things we can not know about the truth of them… and so many things just happen LIE!!! so How come for me tht i can find a true love by cyber or chatting internet… But u know wahy guys??? FInally i have to make confession that, yes its TRUE, WHY???? It just because I DID IT!!!! I GOT IT !!!! Yeah, Finnaly i already found my true love in my life by…..ON LINE CHATTING INTERNET!! I feel in love to him, and at first i can\’t believe to my self and I thought : HOW SILLY I AM!!! I CAN LOVE SOMEONE WHO SO FAR AWAY FROM ME and I LOVE HIM WITH THE WAY THT I HATE OR I DONT BELIVE BEFORE!.. I was thinking bout that for a few days to decided and convience my self tht YES, I REALIZE THT I FEEL IN LOVE SOMEONE JUST BY ON LINE CHATTING INTERNET!! So finally I accept him to be my lover even i have to broke my commintment n broke what i believe….many different things to make me doubt at first for him, but he already make me sure that He really loves me… But again : maybe its true that LOVE IS BLIND… Lol. I love him so much and more n more until now… even we just have communicate more by chatting internet! Everyday we have dating more by on line chatting internet… but it make us depper n deeper love each other… and feel so intimate each other too…. So I have to say THANK U SO MUCH TO CYBER! lol.. coz by it i, I GOY MY TRUE LOVE! so I just wanna say tht dont be hesitate to find ur love on cyber or chatting internet, dont take underestimation for them!!!! I ALREADY PROOVEN!!!! FOUND MY TRUE LOVE BY ON LINE IN CYBER!!! Wish u Luck guys to find ur love on cyber!!! ~ME — MEYDIA~
R u sure meydia? we may define true love in different ways. u may say deep love means true love. in my opinion true love means loving somebody without any reason. even you urself dont know why. if still in your mind u have some reason for example he is handsome, talented, loyal, rich, attentive, caring , loving , understanding or all those kinds of things, u r still having a reason. in case that if one day u find him change a lot to the opposite ones, becoming so meant , bad, having hurt u too much many times may be or worse like having serious illness, unrecoverable , blind, disgusting face, no legs, no hands, becoming a killer; but still u love him without knowing why….i bow my head to say that ” yes, u r right, u r having ur true love. congratulation” i think it is better if we should not call it true love if we have’nt experienced the bad things. just call it deep love. agree meydia, guys, admin? take it easy. just my idea.
hey noori congratulations on writing your first ever article, u wrote good!
I advocate the following view that love does not choose social class, culture, ethnicity or religion, so we’re exposed to in apiaxonar by someone in the real world or online, we can not control our emotions and feelings, love happens when we just live it and thank God for this gift, no matter if you’re on the person or the person is miles from you, from your heart despare think when that person, okay.
Whenever life gives you an opportunity to love, love, love intensely as if for the first time, and desperately as if it were the last.
Love overcomes distance barriers and grows over time, becoming more resintente less likelihood of crises of coexistence, but it is worth risking and throw in the love than never to have loved in life.
When you love someone who is distant, has a fertile imagination, because the person thinks, imagines moments with the person and becomes a dreamer, love on Internet can be real since there is sincerity on both sides of the screen, since the heart of Dušas people feel true love.
It is not in doubt of the love that is virtual, everyone has the capacity to love and whom we admired here in danger by an love so because there are people who love close and not enough to love someone who is far away.
ilk love in your life idependente of any difficulty, because perhaps this is the only opportunity you will have to love.
hey u have really very well written about the online dating.
hey Ayesha, thanks a lot for comment on me… but whateever u said its true tht we cant say tht is true love if we dont have bad experiences in love… but u have to know thts YES I HAD!!!!
so when finnaly i found someone n decide to accept it even by on line internet, .. thts really not easy for me… whtever the reason! anyway again say thanks for comment. How bout u?? have u found ur true love?? Lol
congratulation on ur true love. about my true love???lol lol lol tooo. unfortunatelly, deep damn, yes i have, meydia. i have to admit that! lol. and the worst is it is on net!! but he doesnt love me and hates talking with me. i dunno why n i dunno wht to do and i dont have any power so i choose to keep silent. just silence. it is the safest way not to make him angry anymore. coz, loving trully is just loving. no any prerequisits. no force.
Hi ayesha, No problem at all… i love to share but for u, i just suggest dont give up! tht True Love shld b fighted, shuld b reached.. if u r sure tht he is ur true love. as u told it can b reached in different ways.. so who knows if u have good efforts, u will get ur true love!
But one thing tht yes love can b force but instead tht can b fight before we r surrender!
SO FIGHT FOR UR TRUE LOVE FIRST!
Let it be,meydia. sometimes i feel it is crime to make somebody uncomfortable because of us. and i dont think that when he loves somebody else is bad or meant. It is Allah who gives us feeling of loving. To whom we should love, we dont know and we cant control. so if Allah decides he to love someone else, is he wrong? not at all i think. we r just human. enjoying wht Allah decides upon us is so sweet, if we really understand. i dont care anymore of wht his reward, his reaction, his feelings toward me. loving is loving. we dont need any reward. in case that we get reward, it is a bonus, extra bonus. he knows the best for himself. we should not be an egoist. and love shouldn’t drive us to be meant, bad or egoist. love should drive us to be better, wiser, more understanding. the real true love belongs to a mother i think. no matter how bad r her children to her or their environtment, still she loves them till the end of life, no need any reward from her children. when no body stands behind her children, she with her weak body will forever protect her children.
Online dating.
No time for a real relationship. Go to the internet and have some cheap fun. hehehe
yeah i agree!. but i mean t after we got the true love (in realtionship), it shuld b fighted. so will make it stand firm.. but yes all back God’s will. Even He gives us free willingnes to choose… And yes i agree also tht the real n true love is mother’s love! i already got it!
i had a lot experiences bout mother’s love in my dark side of my life… Mother was still being there for me…. when no one beside me n left me…. even no matter how was i hurt her so much… hmmm… and i can feel more, after i hv been a daughter….but still,.. LOVE CANT B FORCED BUT LOVE CAN B FIGHTED…..
yar actually now day true cann’t found. its hard to find love which is true on internet (all most impossible). but its possible one out of millions. i personally know a person (my relative) who fall in love with a girl lived in egypt. after some dating on net they decided to got married.they married on phone girl come in pak after six month she asked to boy that she can’t live here come to go with me egypt boy refused.she go back to her country & boy lived in pak.they had also a son now who also live with her mother.
Love is mysterious and contradictory, so it sometimes can be found in the strangest places, even on the internet, online dating has something more than love in real time as it is stronger and more resit the distance, as it is mean to say there is a child that dreams are not true, it is not fair to question the feelings of others, all love, regardless of whether the internet or real time, should be respected, as is the case of two hearts.
love is love in any moonlight in the world, in any situation or any circumstance.
its wonderful that two people away by love build a bridge between culture and religions.
We can not judge the love neither we want to not be judged, love is to feel and not to understand.
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