Let me tell you something – if you are doing the Atkins Diet, you might be doing it WRONG. I have been on diet forums for years, have consulted thousands of people on low carb diets, and I am seeing it again and again.

People don’t know how to implement a low carb diet. Very often people fail to lose weight or to adapt to the low carb life style. Many people give it up after a couple of days because they don’t know how to do it right. The Atkins Diet is the most famous low carb diet, but it is full of pitfalls just waiting for you to walk into.

Rule #1: Calories DO count. You must count both carbs AND calories

Some of you may believe that losing weight is just a matter of reducing carbohydrates. In fact, many do. Hunting for hidden carbs and totally neglecting the calories you eat is setting you up for failure. The only reason that low carb diets work is that they reduce your appetite. You end up eating fewer CALORIES, and lose weight.

The problem is that not all people start eating fewer calories after switching to a low carb diet. The only 100% bulletproof method of losing weight is by counting calories. Don’t rely on simply reducing carbohydrates. Eat less carbs AND less calories. Count calories! It is much easier to restrict calories when you are on a low carb diet, because you won’t feel as hungry as with high-carb diets.

Rule #2: Going straight to 20 grams of carbs per day is a NO-NO

The Atkins Diet has you eating only 20 grams of carbs a day during the first two weeks on the diet. After that, you are advised to gradually increase the number of carbs you eat. I strongly urge you to reverse the order of events. Start eating 80 or more grams of carbs per day, count calories and then reduce them more if you want to.

My reasoning for doing so is very simple. During the adaptation period you will lack energy because you have taken out the carbs, and you need time to make the fat burning enzymes to use more fat for fuel. If you suddenly start eating a super low amount of carbs, you will feel totally out of energy, because your body cannot manufacture quickly that many fat burning enzymes. However, when you reduce the carbohydrates GRADUALLY, you give your body a chance to adapt to the diet without the misery of being lethargic.

You can even start by eating 150 grams of carbs a day for the first week, and then reduce them to 100 grams for the second and so on. You won’t be so fatigued, and because you count calories you are losing weight.

You should expect a period of about one to two weeks when you won’t have much energy, but this will pass. Don’t give up just because you lack energy. This is temporary. If you listen to me and gradually reduce the carbs, you will experience a much less-pronounced drop of physical and mental performance.

Rule #3: Calories control your bodyweight, NOT carbohydrates

If you eat less calories than you burn, you are going to lose weight no matter how many carbohydrates you consume. You don’t need to go super low on the carbohydrates to experience the typical loss of appetite that is so important to be successful at dieting. I eat about 50-80 grams of carbs a day year-round, and I have single digit body fat %. That’s because I control both carbs and calories.

You won’t be able to eat just 20 grams of carbs for a long time. It is too impractical, hard-to-do and unnecessary. You will do fine eating 80 grams of carbs a day, as long as you count calories.

Rule #4: Don’t give up your coffee

Atkins advises that you avoid caffeine and only drink decaffeinated coffee. This is totally unnecessary. If you are used to drinking coffee, just continue to do so. You will have a much easier adaptation period. Coffee makes your body burn more fat, and helps you adapt to fat burning faster. Coffee also suppresses your appetite, and has a mild thermogenic effect (you burn more calories).

Last but not least, coffee is very addictive and hard to give up. I know a couple of people who gave up the Atkins Diet just because he says to stop drinking coffee! I am telling you – coffee will help your weight loss efforts. It is totally unnecessary to give it up.

Rule #5: Don’t avoid milk and yogurt products

Eating plain yogurt is associated with weight loss for some mysterious reason. Researchers speculate that it is the Calcium in milk products that helps with weight loss. Whatever the reason, milk and yogurt are good for your health and weight loss. They have some carbs, but as I told you, there’s absolutely no need to go super low on the carbs, if you control your calories.

Here’s a little known fact, most low-carb dieters don’t know. Plain yogurt has 3 times less carbs than labeled! The reason is simple. Yogurt has billions of healthy bacteria called probiotics, which thrive on glucose. These probiotics eat up the carbs in milk, and turn it into lactic acid. Now, when manufacturers measure carbs, they do so by the method of “carbs by difference”. They measure everything else (protein, fats, water..), and what’s left is ASSUMED to be carbs. But what’s left is carbs + lactic acid. To know the real number of carbs in yogurt, divide the number of carbs on the label by 3. Do so only for PLAIN yogurt. Avoid all artificially processed and carb loaded yogurts. Eat plain yogurt!

Rule #6: A low-carb diet is a high-fat diet

By definition a low carb diet is a high-fat diet plan. Some people turn the low-carb diet into low-carb and low-fat diet. What a mistake! First, if you eat a high-protein low-carb low-fat diet, you are going to get hungry. Second, eating less fat will slow down the adaptation to fat burning and extend your misery. Third, your body needs fat and the fat-soluble vitamins to digest the proteins you eat. Without the fat you are going to get sick, upset your stomach and become severely constipated.

Women should be very careful to eat enough fat. Many women don’t like to eat meat or eat only very lean meat. They must find a way to get more fat in the diet by ways of high-fat cheeses.

Fat should represent more than 50% of the calories you eat.

Rule #7: Don’t be fooled by the quick initial weight loss

Most of the weight that is lost during the first two weeks on a restrictive diet is WATER. On a low-carb diet, you are going to lose even more water. The rate of weight loss is going to slow down after the first two weeks. Be prepared, it is perfectly natural to happen. Don’t expect miracles.

Let’s sum it up. Count calories. Hunting for hidden carbs, and neglecting the calories is a major reason for plateaus. Restrict carbs gradually. Eat more fat to control your appetite. Don’t go super low on the carbs. Go as low as you feel comfortable. As long as you control calories you are on your way to success.

The common understanding is that combining diet and exercise is the best weight-loss solution. If I had to pick one, I’d choose increased exercise. Exercise raises your metabolism for hours after you’re done working out, increasing your fat-burning capacity. It also makes you feel good, keeps your bones strong and reduces stress. A half-hour of aerobic exercise three or four times a week is the general prescription for good muscle tone and healthy aerobic capacity.

Dieting works, to an extent. The drawback to dieting is that, once the diet is over, the weight tends to return. For people who undertake strict diets that limit their caloric intake without considering their daily nutritional needs, the weight comes back and then some, so that someone who loses twenty pounds on a crash diet may very well gain back thirty. Furthermore, strict diets tell the body that there’s a famine on, and the body is a very smart machine. When you start eating again, your body remembers the recent famine, lowering its metabolism to conserve fuel. Your body hangs onto the new calories like grim death, storing away fats, converting carbohydrates to yet more fats, trying to save you from starvation. And there you are, hungry still, but fatter than ever.

The other problem with dieting, especially for kids and teens, is that dieting greatly increases the chance of acquiring an eating disorder. Teaching kids correct eating habits is one way to prevent childhood obesity, but between school lunches and a culture entirely focused on snacking, that had better not be your only strategy. Raising kids who think it’s fun to go canoeing, who’d rather go swimming than play a computer game is a better way to keep them at a healthy weight.

My friend Gerald tried every diet under the sun, but nothing seemed to work. He blamed himself: he’d get so hungry that he’d binge within a week, then feel like there was no point in continuing. He had a funny metabolism, I guess: even on a high-protein diet, he was always starving. He decided that diets weren’t going to work. He hated to exercise: he joined a gym, but quit out of total boredom. He tried jogging, but it messed up his knees.

Finally, Gerald went to a nutritionist. She took a look at what he was eating (she had him keep a food diary), and she explained calories and told him about how many he should be eating to lose weight at a normal rate. But once she was done talking nutrition, she spent a lot of time talking to him about exercise. And then she did a remarkable thing. She took him bike riding.

I guess she figured he wasn’t motivated enough to go alone, and since she knew his low opinion of all things physical, she didn’t even tell him the plan. She just told him to come to their next appointment dressed for exercise, and she had two bikes hooked to the back of her station wagon. She drove him over to a bike path, adjusted the second bike to fit him, and they rode about four miles while she talked to him about calorie burning and oxygenating the blood and the benefits of sunshine and fresh air on the average male couch potato. She talked about how no-impact biking still strengthens bones and builds muscle, which then burns calories more efficiently. (And all the time, young women in Lycra were running past them, bouncing tightly along on perfectly-toned calves. The scenery couldn’t have been more conducive to Gerald’s conversion.)

Gerald bought a bike and started riding three times a week. He visits the nutritionist once a month, mostly to brag, because the weight started coming off right away and he looks great. He still eats a lot, but it doesn’t much matter because he burns it right off. One of his complaints about exercise had been that he didn’t have enough time, but the nutritionist helped him make some practical changes, such as substituting an online grocery delivery service for the two hours a week he used to spend shopping and standing in line. He tricked out his bike with a new seat and ergonomic handlebars that he got at www.nashbar.com,and although he’ll never have the interest to be a triathlete, he accomplished his goal and found a new way to meet women.

Check out these tips on staying motivated and going on to reach our goals.

1. Reward Yourself For Action

You will need to have a reward system in place prior to starting your fitness program. It will need to give you a treat of sorts each time your go to the gym and workout, it is a reward for spending some of your time exercising regularly. Without the right kind of motivation or drive you will never get up and start to sweat it out, it will not matter if you’re at the park, jogging in the neighborhood or working out at the health club. You know that new PDA or mP3 player you have been putting off buying, well you need to turn that into a prize once you reached your initial weight loss goal.

2. Set Realistic Goals

Depending on how much weight you are looking to get rid of will determine the type and intensity of your training and will also dictate the need of a professional fitness instructor.

But if you are like most of us and just need to get started on a regular exercise program to maintain your suggested body weight and to stay toned and fit, you will be able to work up an effective, efficient, exercise fitness program for yourself. If you have a friend that is also interested in starting a healthier lifestyle then you will have someone to help with your motivation and to assist with monitoring the progress of the fitness regime. It will also add an element of responsibility and for sure some fun to the daily routine.

3. Stay Motivated

Once you have taken the time to start your exercise fitness program, you have to use some will power to continue and maintain this lifestyle. We must stick with it!

Staying fit is an ongoing process that must be done on a consistent basis, you will not be able to remain fit and healthy if you just put forth the effort during the first week and be lazy, lose interest or burnout the rest of the month. No matter what you come up with whether it is working out with a friend, jogging in your neighborhood or a formal training class at your local health club you will need to stay focused and use some of that will power.

4. Keep Up A Regular Workout Schedule

O.K. we have finally settled on the perfect exercise fitness program which fits us, now the next step is to map out a regular exercise schedule. Staying fit and trim, and living healthy is a lifestyle not something that is temporary. You will need to get familiar with a warm up and cool down program for the start and end of your workouts. The warm up is very important to help prevent injuries and the cool down will help you with recovery.

The absolute best time to workout is in mornings, but getting in your workouts at the end of the day will also have health benefits. You will also be able to relax much better once your have completed your afternoon exercise program. It will help get rid of the tension of a long day at the office.

By being consistent, you can see immediate benefits once you begin your exercise program, and the advantages of your choice to live a healthier lifestyle will have a positive effect on everyone around you.